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by Anne1
10 years ago
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Things not to say to someone with mental health problems….
Replies: 1
Views: 6108

Things not to say to someone with mental health problems….

These rang so true...sorry if it is a repost but it really connects with me. 1. “Get busy, and distract yourself.� “With significant mental illness, [distractions] won’t work, not even temporarily,� Howes said. After a person slogs through various diversions, they’re still left with the ...
by Anne1
10 years ago
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Losing *everyone* in my life because of disability
Replies: 10
Views: 20850

Re: Losing *everyone* in my life because of disability

What Cooper said really does help, you cannot vent to family and friends a lot of the time – either they cannot understand what it is you trying to say, you come across as though you are complaining or it just feels as though something is amiss. However, a therapist allows you to get those thought...
by Anne1
10 years ago
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: My pain is better
Replies: 5
Views: 11745

Re: My pain is better

It certainly sounds interesting enough, but I am always a little concerned about brand-new posters who make recommendations right away. Call me cynical, but I just get the whole alarm going off. I would also get the idea that I would be a little claustrophobic in those situations…
by Anne1
10 years ago
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: USA people who get Social Security disability benefits can get help to work
Replies: 2
Views: 8395

Re: USA people who get Social Security disability benefits can get help to work

Hey Aquarius, Thank you very much for sharing this with us. I think many people really get this idea of just wanting to ‘contribute’. I will be honest, when people were talking about work at parties etc. I would often feel left out, just because I felt as though I was not contributing anything i...
by Anne1
10 years ago
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Public Transport
Replies: 3
Views: 8564

Re: Public Transport

I would say that one of the most problematic issues has to be train travel. I often feel as though I am left to my own devices there, which is very frustrating because I know that train travel would really get me a bit of mobility back that I am missing in my life.
by Anne1
10 years ago
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: being a supervisor
Replies: 4
Views: 9508

Re: being a supervisor

I think that this is something that can only come from within you – I cannot pretend that this is going to be easy (I would never dismiss anything like that) but I think that the only change that you can make it mental. I hope that you have since found it a bit easier to deal with.
by Anne1
10 years ago
Forum: Friendship, Romance and Dating
Topic: looking for a equal not a dependent
Replies: 6
Views: 14353

Re: looking for a equal not a dependent

As someone who still has someone close, I cannot imagine how difficult it has to be to want to find someone when you deep down have these other issues to deal with. I hope that people start coming here more frequently and actually gain a partner that way – would warm my heart.
by Anne1
10 years ago
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: Losing *everyone* in my life because of disability
Replies: 10
Views: 20850

Re: Losing *everyone* in my life because of disability

I understand that there is no magic word that I can say that makes you feel better – I just hope that you can find a better place in your life. I am very sorry that this has cost you so much so far, that just makes my situation feel …insignificant almost. All my love and prayers.
by Anne1
10 years ago
Forum: General Discussion
Topic: The sense of relief after being approved
Replies: 2
Views: 7863

The sense of relief after being approved

I just wanted to share that there is nothing like the sense of relief that you feel once you receive that approval letter. Especially if you feel you have put up a long and lengthy fight, it may have been frustrating but it makes the victory even sweeter. My family has had to fight for more than yea...