Yes Louie, too much attention can be aggravating. But as you said, there are those who have no one. I'm one of those people. And though I'm far from it, if I were to die in my sleep, no one would know and it could take a while before it was noticed.

I think I can understand how you feel. I've heard of the "devotee" fetish, and people should be wanted for their entirety and not for other reasons.

Hi there, I'm Tony. I'm white, 54, divorced. Like everyone else here I'm disabled, but my injuries can't be seen except by X-ray or MRI. I guess that is good and bad at the same time. I'm interested in a serious relationship with a lady 30-45 if anyone​ wants to chat, stop and say Hello or email me ...