"There is also the issue of how we feel about the appearance of our incontinence wear when it is seen by nurses, carers, partners or whoever." I'm currently dealing with problems involving my kidneys not draining very well. As a result I currently have both kidneys draining into a bag on either leg....

So I'm new here, been looking for a community of disabled people. It looks like this place used to be fairly active but just recently the activity here looks like it's slowed down enormously. Is this a right assessment? So I have spina bifida, basically a spinal cord injury that I was born with. I'v...

Hi, I'm 48 male, disabled from spinabifida. It's been like a dating version of a death sentence, trying to find any kind of intimacy (more than platonic) on places like okcupid being disabled and on disability. It's been a really bleak, lonely scene. The doctors would have said my case was "mild" as...