To the Susan haters... This is such a ridiculous thing to have to address, but I feel I must, it's got to the point of this being so stupid I feel a need to break down and point it out... So a little context for those people who do not know what I'm talking about, we have a chat member named a boyna...

To the easily offended, the overzealous and other complaints! So lots of drama happening lately that I'm sure you are aware, I'm going to try and address as much as possible in a hope to clarify things, actions or inactions and the way of things! The first thing I would like to address his criticism...

I have noticed a recent trend in the room where new people are being suspected of being fake, not only are they being suspected of , and this is where the problem lies, they are being called out on it! The people doing this are not moderators, they have no tools on which to make educated guesses or ...

Lying, the truth, is it always black and white? We live in an age of identity theft, paedophiles, fetishists and cyber criminals, we advise people every single time they come into the chat room to be careful of their private information so what is the result of this? Inconsistencies... in real life ...

So I would like to address something that has me somewhat bothered, I saw it happening to my predecessor as admin Daniel (and would you believe it still happens to him?) And now I am beginning to see it happen to myself, so in defence of us both and the moderators, here is the issue. There have been...

I would just like to add, one of the things happening is a lot of criticism towards somebody who tries to post helpful links, they are accused of being "erroneous" and should be stopped, I am also being criticised for having a soft spot for said person and allowing it to happen! But here is the thin...

Wikipedia defines bullying as... Bullying is the use of force, threat, or coercion to abuse, intimidate, or aggressively dominate others. The behavior is often repeated and habitual. One essential prerequisite is the perception, by the bully or by others, of an imbalance of social or physical power....

Regarding the recent under 18 visitors... Ok I know it says in the rules nobody under 18 is allowed, and for obvious reasons, we quite frequently talk and joke about inappropriate subjects, so why have we recently had a couple of visitors who are under 18? Let me explain... First of all, they have n...

Just a little something regarding swearing... It has been very clear for years now that the chat room policy regarding swearing has been you can swear for colourful emphasis, but please do not swear at people! Our most frequent example of this would be that the following is acceptable "fuck! I stubb...

I have taken down the link in the chat room but that does not mean things go back to the way they were. The situation has improved somewhat, let's keep at it and avoid the drama because that still stands, you bring unnecessary drama to the room and I will still remove you! the only other thing I wou...

So last evening, Thursday, October the 2nd,  everything looks very calm in the room and I think to myself, things are good, you haven't played your game in a couple of weeks, you should do so, you deserve to, and I did! I wouldn't have if I knew what was going to happen but is that fair? You were at...

So last night while I was observing some members verbally bash another member, I posted the following Sep 22 18:40:01 <TiGgEr> Just an observation, you don't like other people saying anything, but you feel perfectly okay and justified with saying what you want even though that is hypocritical and a ...

below you should be able to find updates regarding Celo (one of our chat room members) and his surgery which is happening on Friday!
It might be a good idea to bookmark this page!

so this topic originated with Daniel not long before his departure, you can read the original here [url=http://.disabilities-r-us.com/forums/viewtopic.php?t=3]http://.disabilities-r-us.com/forums/viewtopic.php?t=3[/url] but today I received an e-mail from a moderator who expressed in a letter addres...

The following is to clarify the reasons and actions taken towards Alan but also to point out that this was by no means a decision made lightly, it weighed heavily on my conscience but overall I have to consider the best interests of the room as a whole and not those of one individual. Alan is being ...