Frequently Asked Questions

Here are some of the more frequently asked questions that we get in the chat room.

  • What is Disabilities-R-Us?

    Disabilities-R-Us is internet chat site created by and for people with physical disabilities (but everyone is welcome). We used to have scheduled weekly Wednesday meetings but now you can drop on in for some friendly chat almost any time of the day.

  • Do I have to have a disability to join?

    No,  we are open to anyone and everyone.

    The room is called Disabilities-R-Us because virtually all of the people in the room have one or more physical disabilities.  It also is an indicator that if you do indeed have a disability, this is the place to come to when you need to find people who truly understand and care.  During the rest of the time, you will get to meet many different people from across the world and discuss everything from world events to internet programming to your favorite ant farming techniques.

  • Is this site free?

    Yes, it is totally free.

    But with freedom comes responsibility.  We are a community supported site and depend on voluntary contributions to keep the site open. If you would like to see the site continue, please consider making a voluntary contribution of $5, $10, $20 or more by clicking the "Donate" button.

    Also, we are a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for us to earn fees by linking to and affiliated sites.  These earned fees are then used to help offset the yearly operational costs of Disabilities-R-Us.

  • Are devotees welcome?


  • What is a devotee?

    A devotee is a sexual deviant who sexually attracted to a person ONLY because of their disability.  We are seen as a hobby or fetish to be fullfilled, rather than as a real people with feelings, thoughts and ideas.  This does not mean that if you like/love someone who is disabled or if you find some part of persons disability to be attractive that it automatically makes you a devotee.  But if you come into the room thinking of us as a meat market to indulge your fantasies then you should expect to be tossed out on your ass.

  • How do I get to the chatroom?

    Most people start out by using our online web chat page.  It is by far the easiest to use and does not usually require you to install any additional software.

    We also have our very own Disabilities-R-Us Chat Software that you can download and install.  It it very easy to use and has more features than the online web chat. 

    If you are already using traditional IRC software like mIRC, our server and channel (room) information is:

    Port: 6667
    Channel: #Disabilities-R-Us

  • Why am I seeing sexuality information on Disabilities-R-Us?

    This was not a decision made lightly.  In fact, it took years to decide and many factors were involved.

    As it says elsewhere on our site, everyone, including you, whether it is with a partner or all by yourself, deserves a fulfilling sex life.  Healthy sexuality is a part of being human.  Our goal is to direct you to quality sexuality information in a clean, safe, and discreet environment.